What is a Memory Café?

Memory Cafés are a worldwide recognized support system for those persons afflicted with dementia or other cognitive impairment. The cafés are meant to be fun, educational and relaxing for both the caregiver and the person diagnosed with a memory disorder. According to the University of Washington, the idea of memory cafés or Alzheimer’s cafés started in 1997 by Dutch psychiatrist Bere Missen. His goal was to bring people with dementia and their caregivers “out of the shadows and into the light.” Today, there are more than 1,000 cafés worldwide.

When a person is diagnosed with memory loss, it can be a challenging time, not only for them, but also their entire family. All persons involved may go through the stages of grief, including anger, sadness and denial. This can be a trying time for the family and a Memory Café is a perfect way to come together with others who are experiencing the same thing. This support system is such a valuable resource. Isolation that comes along with many illnesses can be one of the most debilitating factors. When you meet others and you observe that you are not alone, a shift in perception occurs. Friendships and confidants may be established and this is a powerful tool when fighting a long-term illness.

Memory Cafés are held in the community at libraries, day centers, clinics or any place that is interested in starting a café. In the past two years, many cafés have become virtual, for those who are not comfortable attending in person. There is usually a snack or meal served, followed by an art/craft, game or an educational moment. This is an opportunity to enjoy quality time with one another and put the diagnosis on the back burner. Smiles, laughter and relaxation are strongly encouraged! One of the important aspects of the cafés is that the space is set up so the person with memory loss and the caregiver are able to enjoy quality time together. This leveled-out playing field breaks down the ongoing stress and demands that both participants have been going through. They are not separated; this is not a respite event. The activity is structured so that both people can partake and enjoy!

The Susan J. Rheem Adult Day Center is so excited to be bringing their Memory Café back to the Quad Cities area. This free café will be from 9 to 10:30 a.m., the second Saturday of each month, beginning April 9. A continental breakfast will be served, followed by a fun-filled game or art project. If you or a friend or family member are suffering with memory loss, dementia or a cognitive impairment, we encourage you to attend. Please RSVP by texting, calling or emailing Candace Lea at 928-441-1039, cl@adultcareservices.org. QCBN

By Candace Lea

If you would like to learn more about the Memory Cafés in the U.S. and other countries, please visit the Memory Café Directory at www.memorycafedirectory.com.

Candace Lea, MBA, is the community liaison and marketing person for Adult Care Services. She has worked in the human service and healthcare field for more than 30 years. She also is a local yoga teacher. To learn more about these programs, visit adultcareservices.org.